THERE IS A conceptualisation in Psychology worth considering. It requires a rather elaborated intellect to grab the concept. Although no known tests were made, it is not small the number of scientists who finally deciphered ~based on other scientific facts~ that our lives are significantly influenced by human qualities, core material, set of values, and principles from other people who were intimately connected to our lives.
It all gets started during the critically formative years of childhood, and early to mid-teen years. The family environment and the society we grew up in presented us with those people's human qualities, core materials, values, and principles as well as how well they conveyed and expressed their love toward us. It was wrapped up by experiences and examples they allowed us to have showing what is right or what is wrong.
All of it had the power to decisively shape and sculpt who we likely become later in life.
None of us, nonetheless, had chances to choose the ingredients ~so to speak~ in the environment of our immediate family and any of the qualities of the society we grew up in. Those who were less fortunate during their formative years should become aware that nothing which detrimentally shaped and sculpted their lives ~and the quality of it~ is final.
To find a less toxic society may prove to be such an act of wisdom with immense detox benefits, but it takes a well developed intellect to understand that it strongly affects the course of events in our life ~and the overall state of our mind~ if we surround ourselves by people raised to have premium core material, who offer us high human qualities, and who unselfishly present us with a set of values and principles that enrich, enhance, and boost our lives.
Those who were less fortunate can exercise their undeniable right to put together their own cocktail with ingredients mandated by the mastermind behind nature. It is the only way that guarantees them ~and each one of us~ to shape and to sculpt an uplifting and encouraging life worth living which allows to leave behind what was not. They can do it all with a smile on their face.
